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Frequently Asked Questions - FAQ
Q: What exactly is sex coaching? Is it therapy? A: Sex coaching is a practical, action-oriented process focused on helping you achieve your sexual and intimate goals. Think of it less like digging deep into past traumas (that's therapy, and sometimes I'll refer you there if needed!) and more like building a roadmap and giving you the tools to get where you want to be now. We focus on education, skill-building, communication, exploration, and empowerment.
Q: Who do you work with? Is this for me? A: My coaching is for anyone and everyone ready to own their pleasure! That includes individuals, couples, and all fabulous folks within the LGBTQIA+ community. Whether you're single, in a monogamous relationship, exploring ENM, or just curious about your own body, you're welcome here.
Q: What kind of topics do you cover? My stuff might be "weird." A: Listen, there's no "weird" here, only unique! My guidance covers a wide spectrum: from understanding why you might not be getting the action you want (let's look at those dating profiles!), to the simple 'how-to basics' of pleasure, exploring kink and sensual touch, and navigating more complex topics like joining the lifestyle and/or ethical non-monogamy. If it's about sex or intimacy, we can probably talk about it.
Q: Is everything we discuss completely confidential? A: Absolutely, 100%. What happens in our sessions stays in our sessions. Your privacy and discretion are paramount, full stop. This is a safe space for you to explore without judgment or worry.
Q: How many sessions will I need? How long does it take to see results? A: The number of sessions you'll need isn't some fixed formula. We'll figure out the perfect path together based on what you truly want to achieve, where you're currently at with your skills and experience, and the complexity of the topics. You'll start gaining insights and practical tools from day one, so you'll feel results quickly as you implement them.
Q: Do you offer in-person sessions, or is it all online? A: Your sessions can be conducted virtually from wherever you are, or in person right here in Cape Town. It all depends on what we're tackling and what works best for you.
Q: How much does your coaching cost? A: Your investment in your pleasure is a personalized conversation, just like your coaching plan. Pricing and package options are tailored to your specific goals and the depth of support you need. Let's chat during a free introductory call to discuss your unique needs and how I can best support you.
Q: What if I've never had sex, or never experienced climax? A: That's perfectly okay, and you're definitely not alone. My coaching is for wherever you are on your journey. We can absolutely work on understanding your body, exploring pleasure from the ground up, and learning practical techniques to help you experience orgasm. No pressure, just exploration and empowerment.
Q: What's your coaching style like? A: Expect a direct, empathetic, and often hilarious journey of discovery. I provide practical tools, clear guidance, and a safe, non-judgmental space where your desires can truly explode into reality. No fluff, just real talk and real results.
Q: I'm really shy/embarrassed to talk about this stuff. What if I feel awkward? A: Hey, I get it. We all feel a bit awkward sometimes. But here's the deal: this is a completely judgment-free zone. I've heard it all, and my job is to make you feel comfortable and understood. We'll laugh, maybe even shed a tear, and tackle everything head-on. The only awkwardness that stays is the one you came in with – we'll ditch it together.
Do you have questions? Good! It means you're serious about your pleasure. Here are some common ones I get. If you don't see yours, don't be shy – just reach out!